These statements can be true. You can deserve to feel good about yourself, and at the same time still be learning how to treat yourself with more kindness. Self-belief is rarely built in one decisive moment, it develops through practice. One thought, one choice, one moment of awareness at a time. Real change begins when you start noticing how you speak to yourself and decide to respond differently.
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Unnecessarily delaying
Procrastination is often a response to fear, and acknowledging fear can be challenging. Yet fear plays a role in almost every meaningful endeavour. I believe that no one creates work of real value without experiencing both self-doubt and self-belief. Self-doubt keeps us alert, reflective, and committed to improving. Self-belief gives us the courage to act, persist, and take risks. Progress requires the presence of both.
““Whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination. When you fall into the funk of competition, think of literature, think of the early bloomers and the late bloomers. Think of the very many experimental novels that do not follow the traditional form. Your story does not have to have a traditional arc.””
I think Mary Oliver’s beautifully expressed words remind us that growth does not follow a single path, and neither does creativity. Your work, your pace, and your process are allowed to be your own.