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Use this reframe

I think true leadership in relationships regardless of whether they are personal or professional will start with self-awareness. Therefore, the only real shift in any relationship begins with you. When you intentionally change how you show up, not to manipulate or fix, but to create space, you allow others to be who they are. That space invites honesty, reduces friction, and deepens connection. Instead of wishing someone were different, you get to decide how you want to engage based on your values and boundaries.