Who are you?

I have lived through decades of love, loss, and transformation, and I now understand a simple truth: my wellbeing is my responsibility. Not my family’s, not my children’s, and not society’s. When you find the courage to let go, you also accept that the safety net you hope might catch you may not. This is not bitterness; it is clarity. By no longer expecting anyone else to carry me, I have learned to stand taller on my own.

“Do not use your energy to worry. Life is too short to worry about stupid things. Have fun. Fall in love. Regret nothing and do not let people bring you down. Study, think, create and grow. Teach yourself and teach others.”
— Professor Richard Feynman