boundaries

Feet are made for walking

A person who is truly comfortable being alone is powerful.
If you disrespect them, they will walk away.
If you overstep their boundaries, they will cut you off.
If you try to manipulate them or threaten to leave, they will gladly hold the door open. Why?
I think it’s because they don’t need you in their life, they choose to let you be in it, and that is what makes them so dangerous.


A little reminder

I think that failing to assertively say "No" or set clear boundaries can lead to numerous problems. It's essential to recognise that lacking these boundaries can be quite costly. Rather than resorting to lies or excuses, it's important not to fear disappointing individuals who only seem to remember you when they need something. Instead, choose to decline their requests immediately. Remember, while empathy is valuable, it should be accompanied by well-defined boundaries to avoid self-destructive consequences.

“You can cut all the flowers but you can’t stop Spring from coming.”
— Pablo Neruda